Quote from Fr. Tom

"And when you're desperate enough to be asking for help, you realize you can not survive as a self-contained, self-obsessed unit.  And you start asking for help.  And sometimes we ask for help with conditions,  like, I only want to ask for help from smart people, or from cute people, but if you're really desperate, you'll climb into the boat regardless of who else is there, and it changes everything."